2nd Annual BBQ Christmas Countdown Party 2008!!!

on the 24th December 2008,

the 2nd Annual BBQ Christmas Countdown Party 2008
was held at Chungky Cafe Car Park.

Participants:

1. Thomas Tan
2. Low Kok Yuan
3. Chew Sau Wui
4. Chew Sau Yang
5. Nurul Jannah bte. Mhd. Hassan
6. Solhah bte. Mhd. Hassan
7. Tiang Puei Ling
8. Liew Jun Jia
9. Lim Jun Yang
10. Lim Jun Jet
11. Toh Sze Hao
12. Lim Wan Chien
13. Vanessa Pan
14. Low Ke Xin
15. Lim An Hui
16. Wei Kang
17. Chen Kwang
18. Ming Siong
19. Li Xian
20. Ler Yee
21. Pui Key
22. Wong Kok Yuan
23. Wan Yi
24. Siang Chin Fong
25. Wong Kok Siew
26. Nabila
27. Heng Kai Yi
and the santa lady of the night was CHEW SAU YANG!!!!!!


by right the party should start at 6.30pm.. however, due to insufficient of stuff, i went to perling mall to buy and fetch jun jet, so when i reach shop is 7pm dy.. since morning, already very big rain. and the rain are not stopping until night time. i was so worried that the night will be a raining night as this is a BBQ party.

we start to 'start fire' at 7pm... when we are about to success...the rain start... but we didnt give up and we continue.... in the end.... we are using umbrella for BBQ...... really helpless lo.. all the food are so wet... and the curry seems like cannot finish since rain has add on the quantity....

everyone was so high at the party.. esspecially is an hui and lixian... keep on shouting and shouting... in short, we are crazy!!!!!!

never seen people BBQ with umbrealla also.. i think we are the first one lo....... so many car passed by and they facial expression looks so weird when they saw us... but accepctable la.. even i was them i would be thinking that these people are crazy!!!

then the rain got really big and big.... no choice, have to stop all these... then we move all our stuff (except the hot arang) to my shop with our transportation skill.

and my mother give us a idea. she ask us to buy a big aluminium bowl and then we can BBQ inside lo.... then solhah and jannah mother also bring their BBQ stuff to lend us.. in the end, the BBQ party still goes on even raining!!!!! everyone was so wet and hungry, yet we are crazy and happy!!!!!

at around 930... the rain stopped lo.... then we continue our BBQ.. until 11pm.... the war start!!!

we bought around 60 packet which is 60 KG of assorted flour.......
and the flour war begin!!!!!! we throw at each other.... all looks so white...... no good girl or good boy in this party... all are crazy!!!!!! hahahahaha.... unfortunely, big kok yuan was injured as he fall down accidentally....

but it was so fun... can u imagine? 60KG of flour leh.. don know can make how many piece of roti prata.... hahahaha.....

then, countdown time..... when they countdown i was in my shop.... then went i reach there, i insist on another round of countdown.... haha..... so happy!!!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

finally, finish countdown liau... then exchange present lo...... so many present.... so happy!!!!!!! hahahaha... hm.... small kok yuan asked me to help him buy present.. and he intend to buy condom lo... then jun jia and i help him buy lo... in the end, the gift i exchanged was his one lo.. but when i open the packet, i realise that it was not condom but lubricants lo.... so paiseh.... buy the wrong things lo... wei kang said, so malu when a men cant differentiate lubricants and condom... walau eh... people will paiseh de ma... hahahahahah


it was around 12.30am dy.. so those who need to go home i asked them to go home first lo... then, those who no need, we go lim teh...... we lim until 3am.. then i fetch them home......................
when i went home, due to really too tired dy, i sleep in the car when i was waiting for the traffic light for at least 5 minutes... hahaha luckily i didnt woke up in the morning... hahaha..

althought it was real tired... but.. this is a REAL GREAT PARTY!!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!

StRessFul Life

my life had become so stressful ever since i get the job.... plus st john stuff and all other stuff makes me felt like crazy soon..... haiz...

i start to avoid thinking of all these stuff... but sometimes i cant stop myself...
haiz...

this few days has been in real stress and bad mood.... and my bro also kena from me dy..

sorry ya bro.....

WoRkinG

just found my job as a medical sales representative in Abbott Laboratories
starting from 5th Jan 2008..

if i not mistaken, i'm the earliest guy who work in my class...

in mid of november, i told my friend that i wan to fins a job right after i finish all my classes. at first, im thinking of working after new year. but i will accept any offers if i got the chance. my friend who are also in the pharma industries told me that her friend are looking for someone to work for him.. from what she told me..... i can get 3-4K per month( basic + allowance) and 3-10k per quarter (incentive).. i was very surprice with the salary i could as i have set my target since i was in college to work in this industries.

then i went to the 1st Interview at Molek. the Interviewer is Philip which i will be directly report to him if i granted the job.

the 2nd Interview is in Pan Pacific Hotel. the interviwer was Philip and Eric (Sales Manager- Diabetes Care).

the last was in KL. the interviwer was Mr. Hong, the Country Manager of Abbott for diabetes care product.

from the first interview till the last one, to be frank, my passion towards this job has been declining.. as i felt there are not so sincere in hiring me.. they love to talk things like this then they change and deny they said that before.. really dislike this type of people....

up to now, i was employed by them with basic + allowance of 3.4K and from what i heard, my incentive would only be RM500 per quater. must different from what i expected actually... however, for those who know me, they will know that i don work for money. however, i felt like being cheated lo..........

haiz....

they keep on saying that they cant spoon feed me la... this and that... ya la... i didnt ask u all to spoon feed me.. and i wan to feed myself with my own spoon... but if u don give me that bowl of rice, how am i going to feed myself......????


suddenly want me to find all the clinic and pharmacy de particular where i can get o... how i know who is their customer???

i haven go for training also.. how i know....

another company asked me to join them with 2.3K for Basic salary only and i turned it down as i already promised them... haiz... if i know, i should jump lo...

pretty makes me stress with this job even i haven start working for them.... i think my life would be tough when i joined.........................

haiz....

ONE PAPER STORY....

this one paper story is the stupiest things i ever meet...

in the Mass CPR event.... Officer Jimmy has prepared booklet for the public. in the booklet, cpr was taught in mandarin, english, malay and indian. well, i really want to salute to jimmy.. he didnt study in the past, but what he did is much better than anyone in the area.

well, he passed the booklet to me and wanted me to keep it properly.. he told me that no one shall take this booklet until the event itself.. even is officer also cannot give.

well, this is the order i receive and ofcourse i have to obey it right?
then, the next day, tee unn saw this booklet on my table... and he took and read it..
then he ask me, can i have this? i said, jimmy said cannot give anyone first... why don u ask him first? then he is angry already... well, i don want to care about him because to me this is just a very small prob.

in the night, when all of us are still busying for the event, he called and he scolded me.. he said i did a very big mistake. and i asked him, what is it? he said, you want to be my friend or my enermy?? bla bla bla...............

just for a piece of paper then he get so so so so so angry... to me.. this is damn boring de things lo............................................................... yet, he still dare to complain to others... up to now, i still don regret what i did... i still don think i make any mistake.

Disappointed.....

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AFTER RECEIVING NUMEROUS COMPLAIN, I DECIDED TO UPDATE MY BLOG
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well, yesterday night receive call from someone, and he told me that he received complain from other officers... just as what he used to do, he will protect me no matter how.. but this time he seems to agreed with them...........

actually this is what i predicted before this.....
this is how the story goes.......

sjam area of JB, had organized the National Mass CPR event for the public on 30/11/2008 at Johor Bahru City Square...

i receive call from an officer regarding there is a committee meeting for this event and i really wish to take part in this event. in this committee meeting, all area staff officer (ASO) and division superintendent have to attend as all of them play a part in thi big event. however, both my divisional officer are not free to attend hence i ask for permission to see whether i can represent them or not... and i granted with the permission..

at that night, the meeting was held in HQ.. i bring kok yuan (big) along with me.. when i reach there was already 8pm... only Officer Jimmy was there... then 8.30 Officer Patrick came and around 9 somethind Madam Hui Ying and Officer Lwe only reach HQ.. then we start the meeting... well, to me, in the meeting, everyone really contributing their ideas and thinking in this event with the same goal of wanting this event to be a successful one. but the sad thing was only 6 of us from the AREA OF JOHOR BAHRU came for the meeting.... this is funny....

we meeting until 11 if i not mistaken then we go to have supper... officer jimmy treat lo.... then went home.. the conclusion of the meeting is we had divided the overall committee into 4 part.
first is venue was headed by Officer Lwe,
second, decoration and sourvenier was headed by Madam Hui Ying and Madam Hze Rui
third, public training was hel by Officer Patrick, Officer Tee Unn, and Officer Perba
lastly, Admin was headed by me.

well, as u can see, all the officer above are grad 11 officer and i was only a sergeant.. thats why i have to be very careful in whatsoever things i do...

seriouly, i really work very very very hard for this event as i really want it to be the best out of the best. we had several meeting after that.. sometimes at CS, at jimmy house until real late night. all of us really work hard...

the day has come... i prepared my division memeber for the admin part as promised. and i believe we really done great job. however, every activity will have contingency.... at that time, i suddenly felt like i have become jimmy de assistant lo.. i suddenly have so many things to do... including publicity, projector screening and so on.. i was busy and tired,.. yet i was real happy....

after a tired day.... officer lwe send a sms to me telling me that he was happy that all us of can work together so well.. and i told him that i love this too... after that jimmy did praise for what i did in the event... and i felt really happy since i was appreciated...

however.. this is the disappointed part.... as i foresee.... people do sabotage me............
i receive complain from a few officers.....
they said i do things very gan jiong la, why i so busy la, why i do so much bla bla bla....
plus a very boring complain regarding the one paper story... read my blog to get full details of one paper story.....

they really don like people to work for them....
if i don do anything they will feel happy lo... funny freak...
seriously, apart from disappointed, i also feel angry and sad this time lo...

do so much work and in the end this is what i get for return....

however, i still want to thanks Jimmy, Patrick and Lwe for guilding and taking care of me in this event.. thank you!!!!

girl friend....

recently...........

so many people got girl friend liau....

so 幸福...............

how i wish i have one...

my mother everyday bising me also..

say " why you so useless de?? don even have a girl friend..."

haiz...

as if i don want...

how i wish i have......

recently,

there are someone that i fall in love with....

very beautiful girl....

i wish to protect her forever...

she is so sweet...

so girl....

so nice...

so beautiful........

she is so perfect to me....

hahahaha.....

but the problem is...

i don dare to tell her that i like her...

because, IF

in the end, we are together,

i afraid i won be able to give her the best of all.......

seriously, all my friend know that

i;m a very busy guy...

joining this and that...

have own business also....

i seriously know that i won have time for her even we are together...

in my last relationship,

thats the reason we broke up..

but good la..

now she is married..

at least she found someone...

haiz...

how i wish we could be together............

Sad Song

recently found out that Jay's New Album - 魔杰座
has very nice song....

one of it is 稻香 and another one is 说好的幸福呢

说好的幸福呢, is a real nice song.. i really like it very very much...

this song is a very sad songs and remind me of a lot and a lot of unpleasant past..
this remind me of my father.. i don know why.. perhaps, the death of my father is the most hurtful part in my life....

i keep on thinking and thinking, if before my father die,

i chant sutra for him will he survive?
if i accompany him, will he survive?
if i bring him to see doctor earlier, will he survive?

so many and many question..
(picture of my mother and father)

i understood that we cant control a person live or death...
especially after i have handle the case in skudai toll,
so many and many health care professional are there but no one are able to help him..
i felt so lost at the moment..
one guy just died in front of me....
can u imagine?

haiz..
after so many years.. 3 years dy..
the sadness in my heart is still not recover yet..
sometimes, i saw my mother crying also...
i knew that she doesnt want me to see her crying..
hence,
i treat it as nothing happened..

i still remember, after my father passed away, my mother and i,
cried for 3 months..
everyday, every night..
we lost our routine life.. and the most important.
we lost our family member...

my father have so many and many friends....
they are real sad also...
up to now, we still remain his telephone number.. we know that its not rational in doing so..
but we just cant make ourselves to cut off the line....

a very silly thinking...
i still hope that one day, he would use his telephone to phone me..........

up to now, whenever i saw people taking their lunch or dinner with their father,
i felt so happy for them....
yet, the sadness in my heart occur again...........................
if u wish to know how he die, got to the link below...
http://thomasdiary.blog.friendster.com/page/2/

(picture of me and my father awarding the International Dragon Dance World Champion in Taiwan)


while im writing this blog, all my memory came back before the day he die..
when i saw his photo...
my tears ran down..
its funny that an old men like me still crying...
but i just cant control my feeling....


this song (说好的幸福呢) is a real nice song...
if u are free, please listen to it..
it really brought me back a lot of memory........

i would be very happy if u could leave some comment for me..
or, u can leave in my friendster profile... thanks.

Ke Xin Birthday Part (2)

friday night, we went to da wei wang (Steamboat) to celebrate ke xin birthday...
picture was not clear due to armpit de skill is not good yet.. hahahaha

the participants was....

thomas, Small Kok Yuan, Leong Yin Kuan, Tiang, Sau Wui, Wan CHien, Armpit, mei Ting, Lixian, an hui, my darling (Sau Yang), Ke xin, victor, and Jun YAng..

well, i was late there, was very late.. around 8pm already.. together with me are ah tiang...
however, i wasnt the latest lo.... hahaha
li xian and victor are later...

as usual, while eating while playing... play until like crazy people.. don know whats so fun also.. but its fun.. haha.....

i was late becasue i went to buy cake for her.. then when lixian came, she brought a cake too..
i was like... oh oh..... 2 cake.. how to eat....??? haha..
luckily the cake she bought was not the same as mine..

then we play and eat and play and eat..

ding dong..
the time to cut cake liau..
this party is to celebrate ke xin birthday, but few weeks a ago, tiang birthday we didnt celebrate for her.. she is having PMR that time and an hui birthday also.. althought her birthday has passed for a month!!! haha.. im wondering how does a mountain pig know about her birthday? or she was lying to us so that we would celebrate for her??? hm.. so many and many question.. haha..

(they looks so beautiful when the smoke passed by)

after cutting the cake, its time to eat lo.. we decided not to cut the cake into pieces but just use spoon to eat lo... then the cake war begin.. as usual, ke xin and small kok yuan is the best player for the cake war.. then the others are just watching..

however, i realise there is a small boy {the most handsome in taman perling~he say de} (in the pic) which are playing a fool too..

i told him not to disturb me.. but he insist.. and i keep on tolerate..
in the end... hahahahaha he kena by me liau!!!!! hahaha serve u right. hahaha...

the cake that an hui hold, in the end armpit smash it on ke xin face.. he use a lot of energy lo... i think he has forgotten than ke xin face is not a plasma flat screen tv.. so kelian..... plus plus... look at those people behind an hui and ke xin... i will describe them in details later.....

when ke xin and small kok yuan play, they accidentally langgar the next table de customer..
they were so fierce and ask us to have some manners..

those people are so ah beng, ugly, fat, short, and disgusting....
the hair doesnt goes well with the head,
the head doesnt goes well with the shirt,
the shirt doesnt goes well with the pants,
the pants doesnt goes well with the shoe,
the shoe doesnt goes well with the face,
the face doesnt goes well with the ear,
the ear doesnt goes well with the mouth,
the mouth doesnt goes well with the watch,
the watch doesnt goes well with the hat,
the hat doesnt goes well with the teeth....

he is totally a monster and is the worst monster in the planet!!!!!
i believe those who has seen him, agreed with me...
(Please comment)

then keep on playing and playing until ke xin and kok yuan look like this.....

after playing, we took photo lo......
below pic is the latest couple in st john lo...
4 couple lo..






















after all the fun,
we have a small discussion on st john committee new system..
this is the prob with us which we can play like hell but in just a few second we can provide very professional attitude!! great men! haha..
we didnt realise that it was real late until my father in law called..
he was so angry lo..
then very fast i send my darling and his brother back lo...


the overall party was great and lots of fun.
but don know why, i still feel that ke xin is not happy..
haizhaizhaiz.. don know what to do also..
haiz... god blessed her with happiness forever....

Journey to Bukit Indah aka Ke Xin Bitrhday Part (1)

22 of October....

at that night small kok yuan ask me whether he can come my house to study or not..
well, i was doing my assignment at that time..
to me, i prefer to have somebody studying together with me than doing my assignment all alone.
so, i agree to his request..

around 8pm, i reach his house then bring him to my house..
he said at 10pm have to be at home..

then we study+study+study....
in a very short while, 10pm liau..

then he said, he is angry and we agree to go for supper..
hee hee.. as usually, of course, his gf would want to join us to..
i don want to be a lampost so that i ask kexin out to...
but i have totally forgotten about her birthday..
from her face.. she was quiet sad about it..
seems like no one celebrate for her..
the happiness on her face cant be seen..
well, i decided to buy her a cake...

on the way to bukit indah (Mrs. Low House), i asked kok yuan whether he know how to go to his gf house or not... i went there before but it was long ago.. so i cant remember actually..
then.. went we reach the T-junction near Jusco Bukit Indah, i ask kok yuan which road shall we take? he say turn right... i told him that as what i remember, we should turn left.. however, he is so serious about this matter, i believe in him..

we turn right..


as i go on, i saw the signboard written

Tuas Kuala Lumpur

i was like SHIT!!! we were on the HIGHWAY!!!!!!

i was thinking whether there is a u turn for me or not..
as i go on and on and on....
i reach the toll and i ahve to pay RM2.30 just because i take the wrong road...
after paying, i take a U-turn....
then, i was at the toll again.. and i was forced to pay another RM2.30..

damn shit.. suddenly need to pay so much for nothing..
ok.. turn back dy, we at the junction again..i told him that we should go straight this time.. but he said no... is right.. ok i follow what he said...

AND HE WAS WRONG!!!!!
as i go on, i have reached bukit indah 2...
damn stupid..

i make a u turn again and back to that stupid junction...
in short.............
i took 30-40 minutes from taman sutera to bukit indah.. this is so stupid..


when mrs low was in the car, i told her that i want to buy a cake for kexin.. ask her where to buy...
but ke xin refused.. she don want the cake...
however, we continue our journey to buy the cake
that time was already 11pm... all cake shop was closed..
then we realise that the Island Red Cafe is selling cake and we bought one for kexin..
its a chocolate cake.. as wha she said, its yummy..

then we went a kopitiam to have our supper and celebrate her birthday..

hm.. to me, she was not happy as a lot of people seesms to forget about her birthday... i felt so bad about it..

ke xin, no matter what happened, PLEASE BE HAPPY!!!!

Sergeant's Life..... (19/10/2008)

hm..... this is my first blog in blogspot.com...
(for previous blog, please go to my friendster account, TQ)

it has been 3 days since i promoted to a divisional sergeant...
seriously, i;m quite excited about this promotion as finally i reach my goal.
still remember a few years ago, i set a goal for myself with my ex-gf, saying that
before she graduate, i have to be a sergeant. and i DID IT...

to be frank, before this i was quite scared to be promoted into sergeant..
the responsibility seems to be too big for me...
i afraid i cant do it actually.
perhaps, i have too high expectation for myself and people's expectation i took high
attention into it. since officer promoted me, i shall do my best to show him that he didn't promote
the wrong person.

however, after the highway duty case happened in the Skudai Toll on the 4/10,
i start to have some kind of confidence in my first aid skill.....

hm, in the end, i wore my new rank...

seriously, after wearing the new rank, i do nt find a different when i work together with my own team. however, i felt stress if i need to work with other division member... i seems to have climb to the post of sergeant in too short time.. let me refreash back...

year 2005.. first join st john as the founder of perling division....
year 2006.. joined the adult division (tampoi) as a prebet..
year 2006 (May).. promoted by tee unn to lance corporal..
year 2007.. remaining as lance corporal
year 2008.. promoted to ADJJ corporal by seng chuan...
year 2008 (Oct).. promoted to sergeant..

i mainly took 4 years in st john to my stage now.. i think the most important reason is from my dear Officer Aw Seng Chuan that has been guilding me all the way up to now.. thanks ya!!!

so, in my first sergeant duty, it was a blood donation campaign together with basic body checkup (BMI, blood glucose, BP).....

i felt so anxious about this duty,
first of all, this is my first sergeant duty,
second, i'm the chairperson of this event(from the Foochow Association of JB)
thirdly, we was not well prepared for those who are very new to body checkup....
forth, i always wanted to show my ability of doing things to those aunty and uncles in my hui guan....

finally, the day arrived...
hm... at first i was thinking of giving small kok yuan a surprise that i was already a sergeant and two sergeant are working together for a duty... but, the day before the duty, he called me and says that he is not feeling well and cant go.. seriously, a bit dissappointed in this..

ok.. the next day.. i woke up so early in the morning just to ensure everything run smoothly...
unfortunately... my dear member, L/C Lee Li Xian (tat girl in the pic) was late and we wait for her.. haha...... so many times i went out with her, around 70% she was late.. so i was used to it..

this time, member not only come from my division (ADJJ), but also come from SMK seri perling, and smk sri rahmat.... we have around 30 members gone for this duty... and in fact, it is quiet nice that everyone works together for the same goal...

the event was successfully held and all the aunties and uncles seems to accept my ways of doing things and asked me to organise it again... hm... this is something i felt happy at..

however, as a perfectionist, i think, there are always something that i felt it is not good enough ba.......

1. the adult member was not doing their best for the event. to me, adult member shoudl perform the best, organising, planning and leading the team of cadets member to their excellent performance.
2. the NCO from perling was not doing good too... they didnt control their member well, yet, they play with them together.... hm.. this is something i really don wish to saw it.. i don wish to refer to anyone as i want it to be a group assesment.
3. as for those member, hmm.. most of u are first trial.. good work.. jia you!!!
4. we did not hit our target as our target are 30 packs of blood while we only get 28... very disappointed towards this matter. however, the nurse from the hospital tole us that actually this is a very good try for the first time.. as we organize it annually, we will get better result.
5. none of my friends come and support me....... that's the sadness part of all....

lastly, hopefully, those who didnt do the best in this duty will know why and how to perform better next time. feel free to contact me ya..


the overall rating for this duty is 4 star... its quite fun after all...